Monday, 17 June 2013

First Aid at our Place

First Aid at our Place
Claire Aslangul - Monday, June 17, 2013



On the weekend my husband played 2 games of football. During the second game he copped a bad tackle and both he and his opponent landed on his ankle which was twisted under him. After spending a number of hours in the hospital ruling out a fracture, we came home to now treat a fairly serious sprain.

So following standard convention, RICE (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation) is still one of the most effective ways of treating sprains and the doctor also suggested anti-inflammatories. So I rushed out and grabbed some this afternoon. This is what they look like:



Why the Oysters?


Oysters seem to be one of those foods you either love or hate. I mostly comes down to texture as a good oyster tastes like fresh clean ocean air on a summers day. But what oysters really are power-packed balls of life giving amazingness (You can tell which side of the fence I sit on with the oyster argument). They are incredibly anti-inflammatory, not quite as good as say caviar, but relatively more affordable. Just 2 oysters contain more than twice our daily minimum of Vitamin B12, all our requirement for Selenium and Zinc and a quarter of our daily requirement for Iron and Manganese. There is even vitamin C in oysters! Add to that almost 700mg of Omega-3 oils and we are looking at something that is better than most multivitamins on the market.

So in the case of my husband and his dodgy ankle, what does this mean? Firstly the anti-inflammatory property of the oysters will help to take the swelling out. The B12, and Zinc are vital for repair of the damaged tissue. Selenium* has so many roles in the human body, particularly with brain and nerve health, that having an adequate amount will only lead to faster healing. Finally the omega-3's, you could simplify them down to "oiling the joint" again, they are required for so many functions in the body that increasing the amount of omega 3 will help on a number of levels.

Why the Beef bones?


The grass fed** beef, which is a shank and some ox tail is for making bone broth. This is yet another super food full of awesome goodness. Bone broths, which are made from bones and joints contain all the minerals required for healthy bones and joints, because that is what it is made of. These include Magnesium, which is anti-inflammatory and is required for creating melatonin, which is a hormone vital for sleep, and growth hormone, which is required for repair.

Another set of substances in bone broth are glycosaminoglycans (glucosamine is just one of these). These are responsible for laying down collagen in joints, tendons, ligaments and blood vessels. Collagen is part of what is known as intercellular cement, the stuff that holds your cells together. It requires zinc and vitamin C with these glycosaminoglycans to make collagen. See where I am going with the combination of oysters and broth?

The other side of the coin is avoiding foods that increase inflammation. These include grains, legumes, sugar (soft drinks, lollies, commercial honey), artificial sweeteners and "factory produced" meats, especially chicken and pork.

If you are suffering from joint issues, either acute or chronic these 2 amazing foods are your friends and adding them daily to your diet can save you hundreds of dollars on supplements and pain killers, not to mention without poisoning your liver and kidneys.

* High levels of selenium are toxic. never exceed 400mcg per day. RDI is 60-70mcg

** There is a huge difference in the inflammatory properties of grain-fed feed lot beef and grass fed. Just like if you eat inflammatory foods, like grains you become inflammed, the same is for cattle. It may look the same, but it is very very different in how it impacts your health.

Tuesday, 4 June 2013

The Difference Between a "Bulletproof Coffee" and a "Fat Black"

The difference between a "Bulletproof Coffee" and a "Fat Black"

Claire - Tuesday, June 04, 2013



I have had a few people ask, what is the difference between a Fat Black and a Bulletproof coffee and the answer is nothing, but it really is everything.

Firstly, I have to give credit where credit is due. . I first read about butter in coffee on Dr Jack Kruse's website, which lead me to Dave Asprey's work. The Bulletproof Executive, AKA Dave Asprey has been onto this combo of fat and caffeine for about 15 years. In that time his IQ has gone up 20 points. He is a fantastic bio hacker and is doing amazing things to help people regain health and vitality. I am not sure if he is the inventor of the drink, but he is definitely one of the most well known promoters.
The second credit needs to go to my awesome sister, Dr Linda Blythe and the lovely Courtney Cox (not of Friends fame) who coined the name Fat Black when choosing to put it on the menu in the cafe at Bonfire. It was this name that we have chosen to run with and for one really big reason.

Bulletproof on the surface is a really good name, it implies you become impervious to all that life throws at you. I am all for being resilient to the negative stuff that happens in life. But... When you start your day by making yourself "bulletproof", you are in actual fact telling your brain and body that each day is a battle and that is why you need to put on your armour. You can't go into battle without loads of adrenalin and cortisol (not if you expect to win any way). If your brain takes what you say literally, then being bulletproof means you are going to be shot at.
How stress stops the ability for learning, reduces immune function and decreases your potential for love and fun.

This is a mistake we make in so many areas of our lives as individuals and as a society. Battling the bulge, the war on cancer/obesity/drugs/terrorism, fighting for life. All of this leads away from health and the full expression of life, love, community. It is a path away from all the good things in life. There is no need to be bulletproof if there is no war.


So, I sit here sipping my Fat Black and prepare myself for a day of curiosity, abundance and love.

Thursday, 30 May 2013

5 Appropriate Ways to Deal with Stress

5 Appropriate Ways to Deal with Stress

Claire  - Thursday, May 30, 2013

If you had a chance to read this blog on Primal Responses to Fear, you may have recognised some of your own patterns to how you respond to stress. Stress is a normal part of everyone’s life. Small amounts are what get us out of bed in the mornings and motivate us to make positive changes in our lives. It is chronic high levels of stress and responding to stress in a self-destructive way, self-defeating way or both.

Being able to recognise what our default response to stress is good, but what is even better is working our which forms of stress relief will have the biggest impact to help us move towards a happier healthier life. Each of the stress responses requires a different counter action.

So, here are 5 suggestions on how to de-stress based on your default responses:

1. For the Fighter: The fighter often gets caught up in how bad it all is and can cave under the intense feeling of how unfair life is. A gratitude journal is the perfect way to counter the stress of life. Start by writing down what is good, but then really focus on why it is good. Feel into your body the emotions that come with the good stuff, the deep sense of love and joy.

2. For those that take flight: Running away can be a great response to being chased by a lion, but most of the time in our modern lives we are just trying to dodge and avoid problems that will keep springing up until they are fixed. Meditation is the best way to stop running. Seeking that stillness within your mind and your body will help to balance the adrenaline of flight.

3. For those that freeze: No matter how little you change things, the world has moved around since you became stuck. There is no status quo; things will never be the same again regardless of your stillness. Move, move your body, run, dance, jump, skip, climb. Move your furniture, swap you cupboards or draws around. But move.

4. Disassociation is a lack of connection. When being connected has created pain and fear in the past, you will move away from it and from yourself. To release this link between connection and pain, you need to connect in love. A great way to do this is to sit cross-legged opposite someone you love and trust and look into each other’s eyes. There is no need for words, just hold each other’s graze and allow any emotions to bubble to the surface. You could also try dipping strawberries in chocolate and feeding each other to release extra oxytocin, the hormone of love and bonding.

5. Tend and Befriend. When your value is completely attached to how others see you, it creates a huge amount of pressure to perform for them. If this is your default stress response then to de-stress requires some alone time. Getting out in nature, without phones and friends just time for you is a good way to counter the expectations of others. Nature has no judgment and no expectations of you. Nature doesn't care if you are Christian or Japanese or hairy or skinny or a thief or write poetry. Being on your own in nature is the best way to counter tend and befriend.

Looking at it this way, you can see why it is important to tailor your stress relief to how you respond to stress. Meditation for those that freeze will do as much good as running for those that take flight. Now is the time to look at your patterns to work out what will work for you.


Saturday, 18 May 2013

Primal Fear Responses - Guest Blog

Cortisol, adrenalin and our primal fear responses. 

Myra Seberry - Saturday, May 18, 2013 
I'm touching on this subject today after a counsellor friend of mine was talking about how he gets paralysed with fear over the most simple of tasks. He knew it was in some way related to childhood when his father would scream and shout at him and he would be terrified into immobilisation. What he didn't know is that is one of our primary primal survival techniques.
Many people think that fight or flight are the two only survival strategies we have, but in fact there are a few more at our disposal that we use probably far more frequently. Here is a quick rundown on each and their benefits and how we misuse them and end up very unhealthy with cortisol resistance and adrenal fatigue.

Fight

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Prehistorically if you were strong enough to fight and kill an animal that was attacking you, you would need a good dose aggression, physical strength and determination to kill your prey. Your body would supply you with enough adrenaline to put up the best fight of your life. Today there is not too much need for this in everyday life. Although, if imagine your child trapped beneath a car, your adrenal glands would dump a whole lot of adrenalin into your blood so you would have the strength to pick up that car (fighting for your child’s life).
Where we use the fight response inappropriately:
  • Screaming at our kids in frustration
  • Cyber angst on Facebook and other social media
  • Bullying in the school playground
  • Domestic violence
  • Road rage situation
  • Pub Brawls

Flight

Prehistorically if you saw a sabre-toothed tiger coming for you your body would spike your cortisol and adrenaline so you ran the fastest race of your life. Today a good flight response would be if you saw a car suddenly coming toward you quick adrenaline and cortisol spikes will get you out of there quick.
Where we use the flight response inappropriately:
  • Avoiding confrontation in fear of the consequences
  • Substance abuse
  • Anorexia or Over eating
  • Moving house a lot
  • Lots of short relationships
  • TV and computer addiction
  • Athletes that have to run, jump and fly to feel free
  • Hiding in art, drawing, writing, dancing and music

Immobilise 

Prehistorically if it was dark and there was danger nearby you would get that spike of cortisol and the adrenalin would be your indication to do something but maybe you have a baby or you’re not physical strong enough to fight or run so you freeze completely so that your almost invisible and thus protecting yourself and your young as best you can.
Today were that comes into action is often in rape and night time attacks. Women in particular can have this response, becoming completely paralysed with fear. It is a natural response unfortunately it doesn't work in our modern world and we are faced wondering why we didn't fight when the simple truth is our primal instinct took in the circumstances and went with the prehistoric way or the way that worked as a child.
Where we use the freeze response inappropriately:
  • When you’re speaking in public, your mind freezes and you can’t find the words you need.
  • You’re stressed in a situation and again just find yourself immobilised with fear. This is common in car accidents and exams.
  • You find it difficult to make decisions when under pressure.

Disassociation

In reality disassociation is like a sub-response  to flight and immobilise and generally seen in children or men of war.
Prehistorically if a child witnessed or was part of catastrophic disaster eg. Community attack, earth quake or animal attack. To free them self from the trauma they may completely forget the event ever happened or close their eyes and go in their imagination to a safer place.
In todays world we see this happen to children who have been abused physically and sexually. They can suffer from amnesia, dissociative disorders, multiple personality disorders. In the case of war the trauma inflicted on soldiers manifests as post traumatic stress.
Personally I witnessed this happen to my sister. When she was seven she kicked a nest of wasps that were hidden under a picnic table. She was immediately attacked by hundreds of wasps, as I was wiping them from her body there was so much adrenalin in my body I couldn't feel them stinging me. After the event she was covered in stings and in incredible pain. That evening as soon as the pain left her body she couldn't remember the attack at all. To this day she has no recollection of the event, yet remembers the rest of the events of that day!
Versions of this in everyday life manifest as:
  • Prolonged daydreaming
  • Forgetfulness
  • Feeling like your not quite with it or vagueness
  • OCD
  • Speaking then not realising what you said or did.

Tend and befriend

This is almost the opposite to fight or flight and is seen mostly in women especially if they have children. It is also seen in men but not as often. Prehistorically it was safer for women with small children to be with others so that the collective could protect each other. You tended to the needs of your community and if there were threats to the community you as a group you were safer. If you were in a threatening situation or taken by another group the safest thing to do was befriend the enemy and cooperate and possibly integrate into that new environment.
Unlike flight, fight or freeze, cortisol spikes when you’re not feeling part of a tribe, community or family. The hormones at work when you’re feeling safe and in a loving community are oxytocin, oestrogen and endorphins.
Today this is seen positively in loving families, communities, support groups, friendship groups and in team sports. Trying to create the release of these hormones in a hostile environment is also a survival response to high adrenalin and cortisol.
Where we use the tend and befriend response inappropriately:
  • Being “trapped” in an unhealthy relationship
  • Becoming excessively giving to the detriment of yourself, be it with your time or your resources.
  • Stockholm syndrome
  • “Bitchiness” as a way to fit in.
  • Obsessions on how we look, are we sexy?
  • Having unclear boundaries within relationships.
  • Maintaining relationships out of guilt.
  • Clinginess
  • Helicopter parenting
  • Stalking
  • Even creating “sickness” or drama habits.
I think it is really important to clarify that almost all of these things can be an appropriate response to the stressors of life. It is important to give voice to injustices. Altruism is an extraordinary part of humanity. Expressing your self in art or movement is an amazing way to deal with issues. When it is inappropriate is when it becomes chronic and addictive and not focusing on creating solutions.
So the question to pose is what is your dominant survival strategy and are you aware of it?
Give yourself a bit of time to think back to when you were a child. What did you do when you were feeling threatened or stressed?
Did you hide out till it was safe?
Did you kick and scream till you felt heard or got your needs met?
Were you so small that there was no were to go so you pretended you were invisible, staying quiet and completely still till the threat stopped?
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Or did you quickly learn to do favours and get on the right side of whoever was causing the threat?
When you learn these responses as a child what happens as an adult is every time you get a spike of cortisol you default to the survival strategy as a child not giving your body a chance to relax. Every little stressful event puts your body into survival mode shutting down, your growth hormones, sex hormones, impinging on your circulation, brain function etc...
Finding ways to stop that default, through meditation, hypnosis, movement and good nutrition will in turn give your body a chance to heal and rejuvenate in a balanced way.